Personally, the hate for both kinda feels very overblown, that said, I do think the MCU has been more consistently better, even post endgame (Spider-Man 2 & 3, everything involving Kamala Khan, Moon Knight, Loki, Shang Chi and The Marvels), while in comparison, DCEU is a lot weirder, especially considering some of the stuff I really like in it (Blue Beetle and The Suicide Squad) are now apart of Gunn’s universe rather than it (honestly MCU is just, blatantly doing a better job at organisation and being, not confusing with what’s apart of it, like that’s pretty blatant).
Ultimately, yeah, I prefer the MCU.