User blog comment:5555thExplosionMage/Reason Why Mage Said He Was a Girl/@comment-4363364-20161012225533

How am I going to put this... lies about gender, fundamentally, don't mean much to me. you identify as whoever you want, and I personally don't give a fuck if this doesn't affect me or my friends. Now, that's the real difference between you and the other case of gender confusion we had: Tier. Unlike it, you aren't a douchebag, and I personally feel like you don't impact me or my friends too much with whatever updates to your private life you have. This may sound mean as fuck, but really it's neutral. You shouldn't really take it as a "you're too insignificant for me to care" message, but rather "I don't know you enough to care". Bringing out the truth was a good move from certain people's point of vue, but I would beg to differ. If you view yourself more as a girl, like your story makes it look like, then by all means tell us you're a girl and not a boy. It at the very least avoids confusion amongst most users. Or, say from the very start you're a boy with a very feminine attitude, although the latter option may bring some prejudice to you, which is probably why you hid your real gender in the first place.

Bottomline is, take the decision that makes YOU the most comfortable, not the one that satisfies the others.