Thread:Tierhalibelbrylle/@comment-794213-20160320123637

Alright, Tier. I have something I need to say. But before I say anything, I would like you to know:


 * 1) I don't mean any offense by anything I am about to say here, and nothing I am about to say is mean-spirited in nature.
 * 2) You can remove this thread if you like, but you should at least read it. If you don't, it'll only lead to even more problems.
 * 3) I do not hate you and I really do believe we can be friends.

Now that that's out of the way. Let's begin.

Ari made several incredibly strong points. Points that a lot of people on chat have been thinking for a long time.

His first point is that you apparently expect to be treated as someone of a higher status. While I have to say that I've never seen you ask to be treated like a god, like he said. People will come onto the chat and hear you say things like "Fuck you" to them. Sometimes with zero context or reason whatsoever. Can you imagine: Someone who has no idea what this place even is, and is expecting people to generally be mostly friendly, and suddenly you say "Fuck you" to someone with zero reasoning behind it. Suddenly this place seems a lot more hostile. "But Para! It's the internet!" Guess what? This is Wikia, not some place like 4Chan or the YouTube comments where people are expected to be hostile. This is a community, where we work toward a certain goal and cooperate.

Also, the reasons you DO have to say "Fuck you" to some of these people have been for some really petty reasons. Off the top of my head, I know that you've gotten extremely pissed at people for using RWBY characters. Which is incredibly petty and has almost driven away a few people here as a result (Fair reminder of when my friend WeissMaus made the Yang vs. Donkey Kong page and you yelled at her for it). You know how you get when people upset your friends? Guess what? Same goes for me. Except I'm nice to your friends because your friends are generally cool people, and I wouldn't be rude to them for using the PMMM girls in one-sided matches or matches that lack connections.

Then, there's the various times I've tried to be nice to you yet you just brush me off. I have tried countless times to reach out to you and be nice, and speak on a friendly level. Yet you simply don't allow me to even when I actively try to be nice. And you say you don't like me at all because sometimes we'll get into a debate, which more often than not sparks from you having some sort of point that you hold to strongly (Fair reminder of when you wanted to keep the Ragna vs. Ruby page to yourself and not ever let anyone take it or work on it because it was unfair to Ruby) and when I try to make a case for the other side of the story, you rarely back yourself up and just give a frustrated "Whatever" and act like nothing happened.

But I could get past all that. The various "Fuck you"s? Most users who received those got over it. Being too vicious about RWBY in general? Fandom stuff I guess. Poor debating? No harm done. But then, then you go and make a death threat to Time. As Ari acknowledged, this Wiki is absolutely serious about death threats. Do you know what Ray, Idem, and you all have in common? You've all made death threats at some point or another. Difference is, we've been more lenient on you than we were on them. And there is zero excuse for death threats here. Wikia has a strict policy concerning death threats, mental troubles are no reason to go wish death upon someone else, and I don't care how pissed off you are at someone. You don't go and threaten their very existence just because they pushed you to some point. Am I saying that these people should have provoked you? No. But did you need to go and give out death threats? No.

When Ari brought up these points, you closed the thread and responded with something along the lines of "I'm a bitch, get over it. I'm just doing what I like." Guess what? You do have every human ability to do what you like here. But whether you like it or not: YOU DO NOT OWN THIS PLACE.  You do not get to go around being above the law of Wikia, you do not get to flip out on users for simply contributing to the fandom, and moreover you do not get to go wishing death upon someone who pissed you off more than a few times (Fair reminder that you have been banned from chat before for similar reasons, and yet you don't seem to have learned your lesson.). So yeah, you can go "doing what you like" but if doing what you like includes all that, we get to ban you for it. End of story.

I try to be a tolerant person. In fact, that is a fatal flaw of mine: I'm too nice, too forgiving, too tolerant. But I have been far too lenient with you, Tier. In fact, you are extremely lucky that you haven't been perma-banned now. While Warpy, Aqua, and Shadow are all great friends of mine, and they all adore you, it really doesn't matter. Your connections to them will not save you from being banned.

Go ahead, remove this message. Ignore what I have to say. Keep up this behavior. See what happens. I really will do it if this keeps up. And I'm not going to care how pissed off you get at me for doing it. If it's between one person who might be pissed off at me for something, and doing my job as an admin which keeps this wiki as a friendly, well-mannered, open place, then you bet I'm going to choose admin responsibilities.

I hope you understand. 