Thread:Friendlysociopath/@comment-25993979-20160320171251/@comment-3463132-20160321010947

Er- DBFan/Des- I specifically asked Grnmachine1  to help me understand why people take what I say so badly- what with it getting me an (apparent) perma-ban from chat. That's why he's posting this on my wall. I closed the original thread we were talking on because users beyond Taco and myself were getting upset about it so this is presumably the only way he could tell me.

Just wanted that cleared up. That said- I need to consult with others about this because I do not see this as a problem on my end- either people I talk to here are extremely different from everyone else or I am extremely different from everyone here (the distinction is important).

You're listing relevant points but doing it in a rude way.

In an informal way sure, no part of that is rude on my part- rude requires you to be deliberately hurtful or impolite. I did not insult anyone in that line and neither did I deliberately set out to hurt feelings. I was also perfectly civil. If someone takes offense to that- it is on their end- not mine. That's not a rude response.

As for condescending and narcisstic- the latter is out of the question. I at no point during that exchange said anything about myself at all- the polar opposite of narcissism. As for condescending- that is a reply. The person in question gave a premise and I responded with several examples of that same premise I knew the person would not agree with. I at no point insisted I knew more than the person or that they knew less than I- I just pointed out there argument was one they themselves didn't fully believe in.

This is sassy and dodging the question.

First of all- that is hardly a serious question- it's more a statement of disbelief in the form of a question.

I will not deny that it was sassy, that was the point, dude was on my wall and deliberately calling me wrong and stupid- for the 3rd time I might add- I reserve the right to sass people who do that. I consider it my payment for not asking for him to be banned by blatantly being rude in his own right.

''I will take that as a compliment. "That's narcissism"''

I took a blatant insult, decided to not be mad about it, and changed it to take as a compliment. This is basic "control yourself and don't be mad" logic they teach kindergarteners.